What Aaron Spencer’s Case Means for Oklahoma Self-Defense Law

An Arkansas father, Aaron Spencer, is running for sheriff while awaiting trial for the 2024 shooting death of a man accused of sexually abusing his daughter. Recent coverage notes he faces a second-degree murder charge, has pleaded not guilty, and announced his sheriff campaign in October 2025. His case has sparked nationwide debate about self-defense, defense of others, and “Stand Your Ground.” 

The Facts

Reports say Spencer found his missing teenage daughter in the alleged abuser’s vehicle, forced it off the road, and during an ensuing confrontation shot and killed the man. He later announced a campaign for Lonoke County Sheriff while maintaining he acted to protect his child; his trial is slated for early 2026.

Translating the headlines to Oklahoma law

Oklahoma recognizes robust self-defense and defense-of-others protections. Our “Stand Your Ground” / “Make My Day” statute (21 O.S. § 1289.25) removes any duty to retreat when you’re in a place you have a right to be and authorizes reasonable force—including deadly force—when you reasonably believe it’s necessary to prevent death, great bodily harm, or the commission of a forcible felony. The statute also contains investigative-arrest limitations when self-defense is claimed.

Separately, Oklahoma’s justifiable-homicide law (21 O.S. § 733) states a killing can be justifiable when resisting a felony against a person (including a child) or in attempting to apprehend a felon. Whether facts fit the statute is highly case-specific and turns on reasonableness and imminence.

Key Oklahoma statutes that often come up

• 21 O.S. § 1289.25 — “Stand Your Ground” / Make-My-Day: Defines “defensive force,” no duty to retreat in lawful places, and civil/criminal immunity provisions. 
• 21 O.S. §733 — Justifiable Homicide: Includes resisting felonies against a person or apprehending a felon; ties into OUJI-CR instructions on justified deadly force. 
• 21 O.S. §701.8 — Second-Degree Murder: “Depraved mind” or felony-murder categories (what prosecutors may charge in some confrontations).
• 21 O.S. §711 — First-Degree Manslaughter: Includes “heat of passion” killings without a design to effect death (often litigated as a lesser alternative). 

How these laws could be argued in Oklahoma

Defense of others & preventing a forcible felony: Oklahoma law allows deadly force to stop a forcible felony against another person when a reasonable person would believe such force is immediately necessary. In cases involving children, facts about imminent danger, prior threats, protective orders, or ongoing offenses often become central. 

Reasonableness & imminence control the outcome: Jurors are instructed to consider whether the defendant reasonably believed deadly force was necessary under the circumstances—what the defendant knew, saw, or reasonably perceived at the time. If the evidence doesn’t support justification, prosecutors may pursue second-degree murder or manslaughter alternatives such as heat-of-passion. 

Practical takeaways for Oklahomans

1. Call 911 immediately and request medical aid when it’s safe; statements on the call can matter.
2. Do not volunteer detailed statements without counsel; ask for a lawyer and remain respectful.
3. Gather and preserve evidence (witness names, texts, prior reports, GPS data, video) that informed your perception of imminent danger.
4. Expect close scrutiny of distance, timing, and whether the threat was still ongoing when force was used.
5. Consult experienced Oklahoma defense counsel early to navigate self-defense immunity, investigations, and charging decisions.

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FAQs: Oklahoma Self-Defense & Justifiable Homicide

1) What is “Stand Your Ground” in Oklahoma?

It’s the statutory removal of a duty to retreat in places you lawfully occupy, allowing force—including deadly force—when you reasonably fear death, great bodily harm, or a forcible felony.

2) Can I legally use deadly force to protect my child?

Oklahoma’s justifiable-homicide and self-defense statutes permit deadly force to prevent a forcible felony against another person, including a child, when the threat is imminent and your belief is reasonable.

3) What’s the difference between self-defense and heat-of-passion manslaughter?

Self-defense is a complete justification if proven. Heat-of-passion manslaughter (21 O.S. § 711) concedes an unlawful killing without premeditation but claims strong provocation—reducing murder to manslaughter if the jury agrees. 

4) If I claim self-defense, can I still be arrested?

Yes, but Oklahoma’s statute limits arrest when self-defense appears justified. Officers still investigate and prosecutors decide on charges; immunity may be litigated pre-trial.

5) What should I do after a defensive incident?

Call 911, seek medical attention as needed, avoid detailed statements, ask for counsel, and preserve evidence. An attorney can advise on interacting with police and asserting immunity where appropriate.

Need counsel? Urbanic Law Firm defends self-defense, homicide, and violent-crime cases throughout Oklahoma. Contact The Urbanic Law Firm today. Call 405-633-3420 or fill out our form.